summary of 2011 :)

i cant believe there was no post for me in 2011 .. well maybe coz too many htings happened .. maybe coz i was lazy .. but i will put a summary for almost everything that happened ..

will start by family ..

1- i have a nephew now .. his name is ali . .he was born in march.. plz dont ask me when exactly coz i donno :) .. but he s so cute .. it is amazing when u have a new born in the family .. finally i became an uncle :) .. i try n go my hometown so i can see him almost every a couple of months

2- my uncle Ibrahim who had cancer died :( .. it is sth hard for me .. and it is still till now .. we were expecting his death but really it was hard .. he was very very close to me.. . in fact he was more than an uncle.. he was a best friend and a brother for me .. i am just thankful because he died as a good believer . he became a good muslim in his last months ... he started praying, we went together to umrah :) and he did hajj .. and he did so many good deeds :) .. on top of all this he was patient on his disease and he accepted Allah s will .. this is v important and he was always saying Al hamdulillah.. it is tough now for his mom .. his wide and his little baby Omar.. also he was born during Ibrahim's disease .. (a couple of day after he knew that he is ill, his wife knew that she is pregnant :) ) .. hamdellah he saw his boy and now it is better for the wife that she is raising baby Omar .. he may not look a lot like him (his father) but character wise .. he is copy paste :) he is sociable and friendly with people .. just like his father :)

3- my aunt from father side also died of cancer :( .. we were not close a lot.. however i made sure to see her n visit her evertyime i was in leb.. she was an amazing person very friendly and enjoying life .. i didnt think i was going to be sad when she dies like when my uncle died .. however i was really sad.. it was a tough moment for me especially that i was not around the family when she died .. i love her and i ask Allah to forgive her ..

4- work wise .. we are not doing well at al hassan wheere i work.. i cud blame myself however they dont know how to work properly:

- they dont have stock for doha
- their prices are very high and not competitive at all
- we dont have a factory in qatar and neither technical support.
- our delievery for materials is sooooo late ..
- ceo left the company
- another gm who is my friend n who brought me to this company left also ..
- a new gm came to the factory and i htink this is my last chance with my company
- i am not worried too much beczo i am already trying to do some side jobs.. and i have my network here already
- let s see what will happen :)

5- i met a girl in 2011 .. she is nice person and cute .. maybe we have different lifestyle .. like she likes clubbing a lot .. and some other things that i dont like .. but she is a nice person.. the problem is she was out of a relationship that lasted 5 years!! so am sure she still loved him .. also she lived on her own .. so i was always afraid if she had limits with him or not ... anwya ..she was a smart girl n sociable .. and it was almost happening between us .. it was just that i had to go n meet her again to happen.. however days before that her ex contacted her again n she s back with him.. maybe i was a bit sad at the begining but i decided to turn the page and i am happy it didnt happen between us .. she shud be with him i believe after all these years :) .. and am sure i have to look for a more conservative person next time... i thank Allah that nth happened with her .. we were not compatible but maybe coz i had no one in my life then i wanted her .. i am so stupid :) .. no but she is a really nice person .. really :) after she returned to him she did not inform me about that .. however she was trying to avoid msging me and then from her BBM statuses i cud tell she s back to him..
to be honest i did not like at all that i knew thru her bbm about ur bf .. she shud have msged me .. but then i think .. maybe she didnt know what to do? and also she s not very mature .. she s 23 but still she may lack some communication skills. . i donno :) .. anyway i decided not to confront her at all .. i acted so good i guess. i just stopped contacting her .. after she avoided me but realy did notthing to grab her attention .. and i think she respects me a lot for that ... she started msging me after a couple of weeks .. and she was friendly and really respectful n admiring me i guess for my behaviour with her .. i was also very friendly with her n showed her that i am careless if u have a bf.. didnt even say she shud have told me personally that n not thry blackberry.. it is okay :) am happy we are still friends and happier that i made her respect coz the way i reacted .. at least my head is high now .. the reason i stopped txting her after i knew about her bf is that i didnt know if she wanted to stay friends or not .. but after a while it was obvious that she wanted :) .. the thing is that on my next trip to beirut i wudnt like to see her .. mainly coz i wont have much time and secondly i dont want her to think that i am keen to see her by asking her out .. the thing is that she likes my nephew a lot from his photos n i believe she wud like to see him .. but still am not sure waht to do .. personally i prefer to avoid her .. n just remain friends n greet each other from time to time...


also, before this girl thru my mom's friend she got me a contact of a girl.. so i contacted her (she was expecting me) in order to ask for meeting hoiwever she said bb or facebook first.. yuk.. i thought she had someone even my family thought this n i think we were rite.. coz she never wanted to chat or get to know me on bb.. we talked a bit on bb but she was dry n really i wanted to stop talking to her however my friend here she insisted to keep trying until i asked her if she has someone n she said: i am getting to know someone :) .. she seemed a nice person.. but either hse has someone or she doesnt want to meet someone thru parents.. she is a pretty girl from the photos . but also immature :) .. she is 25 though .. i cnt believe when she put photo of her toes on bb profile pic .. yuk.. so immature .. who cares about ur toes!!! get a life! also it does not seem that she is conservative from the way she dresses .. however we donno what s in her heart :) .. am sure she is a nice person too :) .. i am happy coz at least i got an idea how girls in lebanon are .. lol .. i donno but really they shud be better than this .. in the way they behave and the way they show off .. yukk .. why all that i donno... u have to know that in lebanon many girlz are not getting married .. their number is higher than men .. maybe 1 men for 3 or 4 women .. without taking into consideration ppl like me living abroad :)


6- i have to say i am happy in doha .. in few days am moving to a great appartment .. i wud call it my dream appt.. i will be sharing with 2 frinds.. but really great lads.. also ,, i wudnt like to live on my own.. it is kind of boring although it has its advantages .. let s see how it will be..

7- i hope in my next post to give some good news about this current girl :p (no more info)

so long .. but many things happened in 2011 :)